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Post by Yoshimitsu on Aug 3, 2008 18:55:49 GMT -5
Mm. I guess it's that which becomes part of the problem. I've seen quite a few incidents where said "Casual" thing becomes... Well, one wants it to turn into a relationship, and one wants just to move on and say "Hey, I had a great time, but you're not my type." And due to that, it lends itself to a lot of issues. And, as you said, with them being fewer and farther between, I guess that would be slim pickings, no? So, in a sense, more frequently they find themselves forced to choose between "Nuts" or "Nuthin'", while a straight person has about five to ten times as many options open, according to the figures. That's pretty much it. Since I know all of, what, 4 gay guys who live nearby or whatevs, I'm kinda pushed for choices. Expecially since one of them is an ex, one I slept with when drunk a third hates me. :/ But yeah, it's just the lack of moar gay guys that does it. Also, Asmo, wasn't an insult. Just saying you have a similar sense of humor. (Moreso not an insult since Gil PM'd me once saying he wasn't trying to insult me at all, just keeping his reputation as it was)
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Post by asmo on Aug 3, 2008 18:59:16 GMT -5
Mm. I guess it's that which becomes part of the problem. I've seen quite a few incidents where said "Casual" thing becomes... Well, one wants it to turn into a relationship, and one wants just to move on and say "Hey, I had a great time, but you're not my type." And due to that, it lends itself to a lot of issues. And, as you said, with them being fewer and farther between, I guess that would be slim pickings, no? So, in a sense, more frequently they find themselves forced to choose between "Nuts" or "Nuthin'", while a straight person has about five to ten times as many options open, according to the figures. That's pretty much it. Since I know all of, what, 4 gay guys who live nearby or whatevs, I'm kinda pushed for choices. Expecially since one of them is an ex, one I slept with when drunk a third hates me. :/ But yeah, it's just the lack of moar gay guys that does it. Also, Asmo, wasn't an insult. Just saying you have a similar sense of humor. (Moreso not an insult since Gil PM'd me once saying he wasn't trying to insult me at all, just keeping his reputation as it was) i gotta defend my turf because i don't know who gil is and it could have been a horrible insult
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Post by Yoshimitsu on Aug 3, 2008 19:03:26 GMT -5
Hey, I hated Gil but not for that reason.
If I was trying to horribly insult you, I'd have made some kind of mention to the date I made with your second cousin, twice removed last night.
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Post by luigilover on Aug 3, 2008 22:30:53 GMT -5
LOL,OK, I am single. I have never had a boyfriend, and at this time I'm waiting till I turn 18 (in five months) to get one. I am trying to fall out of love at this time but it's harder than you'd think. I'm being emotionally ripped apart. He doesn't know yet but I'm trying not to get mad at him, it seems like my heart is getting colder and colder though.
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Post by Beelzebibble on Aug 3, 2008 22:35:42 GMT -5
If I was trying to horribly insult you, I'd have made some kind of mention to the date I made with your second cousin, twice removed last night. Really? You don't think that's a diluted, feeble variation on what was already an extremely tired and desiccated insult?
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Post by AngelicTragedy on Aug 3, 2008 23:04:04 GMT -5
I guess it's DL's turn to chime in on this little party. I'm single and I can honestly say that I'm about half looking, half not and I'll give you my reasoning.
I'm had some...complecated...girlfriends before. They are listed below in order:
1) Freaked out when I was 20 minutes late calling her one night after we got together 2) The girl that cheated on me with an Ex right in front of me 3) The girl that acted like a 10 year old after I got together with her 4) The girl that didn't bother to tell me that she had a kid and finally 5) The girl that decided that she wanted to get with a girl so she kinda left me
So all in all I attract the crazy girls and I don't want another crazy girl. So is the story of DL's life. DL likes to refer to himself in the third person.
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Post by {WW}BetaBloodWolf7 on Aug 3, 2008 23:09:07 GMT -5
Ouch man, ugly history...... I've seen that last one before, only I wasn't with the girl......
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Post by AngelicTragedy on Aug 3, 2008 23:54:29 GMT -5
Lucky man. Also I find out last week some time that she's with some other guy, so yeah...Lucks not my thing I guess lol.
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 4, 2008 1:53:11 GMT -5
This is why I'm not actively looking for a partner.
I'm sure I attract crazy people.
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Post by {WW}BetaBloodWolf7 on Aug 4, 2008 2:03:20 GMT -5
Well, if you keep trying you're quite likely to get it eventually.
Keep looking, and you'll find the right person.
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Post by Yoshimitsu on Aug 4, 2008 5:55:31 GMT -5
That was the point. xD
As far as looking goes, I'm not. There are a few people that like me, but they're either disgusting, jerks or both. I've finally decided to go for the right guy, or no guy at all.
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Post by Krazy Glue on Aug 4, 2008 11:35:16 GMT -5
I'm still single, and damn happy about it.
Recently, I've been just really loving my singledom, it means I get to be a complete slut with no consequences, flirt with random peoples online and in clubs, go on loads of dates with random ladies, spend entire days on set when im acting/SAing sitting outside the set on fields chatting with whatever talent happens to be there whilst we smoke copious amounts of cigarettes, have conversations with my female friends about their features (having one right now, yay for boobies!) and generally just enjoy the fact that despite having many girl friends with benefits, but im not tied down to one girl right now, and that works well for me. When a decent enough girl comes along that actually wants to date me, I'll happily oblige, till then *gropes skank*
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Post by Clicker on Aug 4, 2008 12:41:20 GMT -5
I am single *sigh
I don't want to be single. I am looking for a guy who is not over 25 and not mentally impaired. Oh I almost forgot and I want them over 14. Those three categories seem to be the only people attracted to me. If you don’t fit into those categories my number is 716-354… I’m just kidding J There was one guy I liked (a lot) at one time but I didn't see how it could've worked out. Him and me don't talk much anymore. I am home schooled so I really don't meet any guys, and to add on to that often I'm so shy it borderlines on painful to be near anyone. I also tend to always do the wrong thing ex: A guy asks if he can help me with my books, my reaction I say no and walk a way. *Groan I didn’t even thank him. I’ll never get a boyfriend. L I have never dated and if life continues this way I may never date. Excuse me while I go wallow in self-pity.
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 4, 2008 13:30:31 GMT -5
Oh, don't worry, I was exactly like that (except for the home schooling, but with the awkward shyness and never dating and whatnot), and look how I turned out!
...Wait. >.>
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Post by Beelzebibble on Aug 4, 2008 14:29:46 GMT -5
I was homeschooled until ninth grade too!
*high-fives Clicker*
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Post by Clicker on Aug 4, 2008 14:34:12 GMT -5
yay home schoolers
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 4, 2008 14:36:26 GMT -5
Photu was home schooled?
...That explains absolutely nothing
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Post by Beelzebibble on Aug 4, 2008 14:42:14 GMT -5
What does it fail to explain?
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 4, 2008 14:44:02 GMT -5
Your social graces.
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Post by Beelzebibble on Aug 4, 2008 14:47:01 GMT -5
Right, because all homeschooleds kids have zero social skills at all.
I'd like to think that homeschooling goes some way toward explaining my creativity and intellect.
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 4, 2008 15:17:16 GMT -5
It's true. Proven with Science and shit. *nod*
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Post by Yoshimitsu on Aug 4, 2008 16:04:30 GMT -5
Oddly enough, I was thinking the exact same thing as Ch00bs.
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Post by Beelzebibble on Aug 4, 2008 16:06:36 GMT -5
Oh, what bigoted friends I have.
I mean, how bigoted Choobs and Elliot are.
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Post by Krazy Glue on Aug 5, 2008 3:37:12 GMT -5
I wasn't home schooled and I have terrible social skills, I just find that me being liquored up tends to help in the case of generally being a skank at bars/parties. Shyness is a bitch to overcome, I suffer from it majorly, my best friend used to be a love interest of mine that I just couldn't actually ask out due to combination of shyness and rejection, ok so everyone around constantly tells us that we should be together etc etc, but I see my shyness as being a good thing in her case cause shes literally such a good friend. Ok so its not entirely the case of we're "just friends" cause it was regularly the case during year 12 and 13 for at social gatherings the drunken two of us would be fooling around somewhere, but since maturing a bit we've actually only kissed a couple of times when we're sober.
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Post by SV on Aug 5, 2008 18:35:26 GMT -5
I'm taken. Current Boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years (two years in one month from yesterday). I met him when he transferred into my homeroom in eighth grade -- CB was in all of my classes except history, for which he had the other teacher. We've dated twice before, at the beginning and end of my freshman year of high school. Started dating again on Labor Day 2006 after I dated two of the Biggest Douche Bags to Have Ever Been Born Male.* CB asked me out three times before I said yes, due to the aftermath of BDBHEBBM-02. CB is 6'3'' or something like that (I have a thing for tall boys), calls me Chu, and takes only six shots of vodka to inebriate. I've hardly even told him about the Exodus because most of you knew me when I was like, twelve or thirteen or something, and I don't need to give him more things to pick on me with ._.
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And he can be yours today! Contact SV with best offer!
I kid, I kid.
* --- BDBHEBBM-01 only dated me because he couldn't date my friend, and BDBHEBBM-02 was a wannabe rock star with a private school education who tells girls pretty things in attempts to get in their pants, and then decides he's too scared to do so. Incidentally, BDBHEBBM-02 tried to de-pants my best friend. He failed miserably. He's silly.
[EDIT]: Whoo, first post on page three! X3
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Post by ch00beh on Aug 5, 2008 18:42:04 GMT -5
Your dbag exes sound like fun people. I'd date them.
6 shots... but he's tall. I think I have a higher tolerance than that, and I barely even drink. And I'm short.
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